Message to the Men of the World
|How sweet! Doodled for me by my Husband.|
Realize men, that if you don't have the foresight to determine a relationship status and your only conversation is regarding relationship status, then you look petty and desperate. You will be perceived as the type of guy who's shallow interest is based upon a profile photo and nothing more substantial. If you are truly searching for a mate, I understand and applaud your efforts. Just don't ever assume that a women is stupid or not worth the investment of your time to get to know her. If there is any lust involved, the relationship would not be satisfying anyway and would promptly end once needs were met. Short term satisfaction is nothing compared to the beauty of a soul-mate once found. Stop trying so hard to impress and dig for information. Just learn more about the woman and above all, be a friend!
Lastly, if you are in fact considering an obsession or stalking a woman, seriously don't bother. There are so many women in the world that none are deserving of such creepy and dangerous intentions. You may be thinking innocent thoughts, but human nature has a way of being very deadly when faced with protecting an interest. Be careful and seek help before ruining the life of the innocent women for whom you are so enamored. If you really care for someone, you will be more concerned with their best interest than with your selfish intentions.
Best of luck to you men of the world. May your soul-mate be more than you imagined and your patience and respect be rewarded.