I had a guy message me pretty bluntly about what he'd like to do to me. Or for me actually. He ended his perverted prose with the request for a dirty photo. My reply was to send a photo of the defections in my cat's litter-box. ;) Saying I'm married never matters. These guys don't even take the time to read a profile and start out looking idiotic asking questions that can be found there. Such guys just don't understand or care that such idiotically perverted bluntness is not a turn-on for decent women. It is only a turn-off. Such energy is better spent looking for a soulmate and respecting a woman rather than chasing after lustful intentions. They fail to realize that their failure to be satisfied is because they are only enjoying empty pleasure.